Thursday, January 07, 2010

“You are what I never knew I always wanted”.....Love ! Love Love!



Something lurks inside us all waiting to emerged when the time is right..that my friends is called LOVE!!
When in an early stage of love..everything is heave on earth..later on it became the unwanted hell!!! burn! burn!
But that is the way life is...we cant do anything about it..love came in the weirdest way u can possibly imaged. Humans are meant to love an be loved..god created human being as a couple..but we are being separated from our true love, our own suitable couple...thats why we got to find our true love and never give up until we find it..insyallah we will..along th way we might stumble upon bad romance or a not so ideal partner..we get hurt..thats the nasty part about love..love can make you live..love can also kill you or at least your heart..so beware my friends..

"I've been through really rough times in my life. Everything from in and out of the hospital, to having outrageous situatiuons with my family. But as of right this very second in my life, love has by far been the most painful and difficult aspect of my life.So what can I possibly do or feel or understand in order to make any sense of this emotion that seems to get the best of me, no matter what I try to be strong about it??"


that make me thing a while ago..


there are also problems with love addiction..what a weird world we live in right??huhu


How to Deal With Love Addiction


Instructions

Symptoms of Love Addiction

  • Step 1:
    Know that love and being in love is the most important thing in their lives.
  • Step 2:
    Understand they are repressed, reserved and insecure.
  • Step 3:
    Notice they avoid leaving bad relationships because they are uncomfortable with taking chances and making changes in their lives.
  • Step 4:
    Observe that love addicts are very dependent on their lovers and are consumed with the affair.
  • Step 5:
    Realize that a love addict is very demanding and requires a lot of attention.
  • Step 6:
    See if the person is under a lot of stress, which leads to fantasy and the desire for a relationship with unrealistic expectations.
  • Step 7:
    Analyze if the person seems to be falling in love too often.
  • Step 8:
    Observe that a love addict will either always have a lover, even if the relationship is poor, or will become obsessed with one particular partner.
  • Step 9:
    Note that a love addict who is usually responsible will start missing work and show unpredictable behavior.

Dealing With Love Addiction

  • Step 1:
    Realize that the first step to overcoming love addiction is making the addict realize they have a problem.
  • Step 2:
    Have the person seek psychological counseling.
  • Step 3:
    Advise them to stop having love affairs.
  • Step 4:
    Try to get them to reduce their stress level.
  • Step 5:
    Encourage the love addict to become educated about their condition.
 

 
 huhu...oh well...just have your own special way in loving your dearest someone...pray to god that you will find the one person who definitely love u cherish u and adore u more that any other person in the world..

there are a few sayings that i wanted to shared with you...

Look not for beauty
Nor whiteness of skin
But look for the heart
That is loyal within

For beauty may fade
And white skin grow old
But the heart that is loyal
Will never grow cold

- Marie Davis - 
 
For Her

For her, I would make sure dew glides along a rose petal
Accompanied by the song of a lyre with notes infinitesimal
I would make rain drops fall with chimes of crashing crystal
Splashing in a dance of pieces so pristine and ephemeral

For her, I would convince butterflies to perform aerial ballet
Every time she wanders among flowers to make a bouquet
I would charm the robins to beautifully crochet
Using ferns, tulips and crocuses, a little beret

For her, I would entice the pure Lady of the Lake
To allow the water lilies to bloom earlier for her sake
I would assure the coy goldfish to daintily shake
Their flimsy tails near her naked feet so delicate

For her, I would whisper music to the fir cones for them to pirouette
I would play flute for the dandelions to flutter their fragile silhouette
I would compliment the snowflakes for them to sparkle on the minaret
And, with her, I would try to sing a lifelong melodious duet

- Written and owned by Penumbra -

thats all folks...until next time..xoxo (gossip girl style) <---had been influence by my sisters....

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